You: Strength of character, calm and in control of self, respectful, sexual, experienced in the lifestyle, knowledge of the submissive mind and know how to stay two steps ahead of me. These are the ones that gain my attention. What excites me? Dominance - of my mind, body and eventually my heart and my soul. Try to just take it by demand, and you may as well walk away, because that's what i will be doing.
i am submissive. 23 years in the lifestyle. seeking a LTR with an experienced Dom, or a Dom who is real and compatible with me. I am a little bit disabled and need some special attention, but not overly so. my submission is my heart and soul. Loyal and serving to a fault. i still have much to be taught, not much real life experience even though i've been in this LS for a long while. I've been trapped a long time in a vanilla.. and i burn.
I was once asked if i am a sub or a slave? My answer was:
What am i? Sub or slave?
There is no real difference (in real life terms) between a slave and a sub. They are the same person.
Any "sub" with all her limits and contracts and her "cherry-picking" of what she will and will not do...it is good in the beginning. But it all dissolves away when in the RIGHT relationship, and eventually, inevitably, she is slave to Him.
So, to answer, i am a "sub" until fully and deeply committed, then i am slave.

Not nearly as many as i started out with long ago.
i Still have a few hard limits. No , , ***s, insects, minors or cutting.