Only try to connect with me if you intend to meet soon. If I have to tell you how to be a dominant then you are not the right dominant for me. I am not a sissy. And please don't use or save my photos.
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I am here to seriously explore real life d/s relationship/dynamic among other things (like platonic friends and stuff). I am a switch in kink, but right now I mostly want to explore as a submissive (I won't switch with the same person, for poly or couple we discuss); outside of kink I am kind of undefined. I am inexperienced sexually but I have good understanding of sex, kink, and bdsm dynamics. I am looking for a dominant kink partner (and friends) who gives me exposure to new experiences and adventures. I am also open to finding a cis girl as regular serious/long term romantic partner but I don't expect to so my profile is designed around kink conversations.
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I am a very dynamic person, an ambivert (but more introverted rn), and therefore, like a lot of things. I am looking for a partner who isn't rigid and is open to new perspectives. I enjoy and don't cringe at being authentic and unfiltered. I don't want anything or anyone superficial.
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I am girl/feminine side leaning genderfluid. I want to explore and develop my feminine/girl self authentically and build confidence/comfort in being able to overtly express that prominent side of me, which I am hoping to do with the support of those I find here. I intend to only/mostly be in girl identity with my kink partner, especially as a submissive. I have an amab body (no hrt yet, can explain/discuss; exploring my options right now). My body is good for both amab and afab partners. Into guys mostly for kink & fun. My serious love interest is cis girls and not-butch nb afabs.
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I seriously prefer a dependable dominant in the relationship who can, as needed or mutually desired, cover things like: dates, kink stuff (at the very least even if you can't manage other things), and outfits for play time or going out based on your taste (because I mostly have gender-neutral or androgynous clothes). This is because I am not independent and a student right now; it is unintentional. I am not comfortable calling someone daddy or mommy but I am open to daddy/mommy/master and princess/little dynamic (it is not necessary though; no age roleplay).
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The following things are a big NO. I am open to exploration outside of what is listed.
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×/serious /, unhygienic (, , butthole licking, etc.), and other risky/hazardous stuff.
×Manipulation (especially gaslighting, it is a total hard limit and I will cut off immediately).
×Non-sexual and demeaning words (dirty talk and calling me slutty stuff is enjoyable but shaming me and stuff like that is not).
×Serious sadomasochism is hard limit. Light stuff that doesn't break any limits is ok and enjoyable.
×Not going to put my mouth on your butthole, it is unhygienic and I like having good health. I am also not going to peg a guy or do any kind of penetration to a man.

×Posting my photos where I can be recognized in any way or without my consent. You are not allowed to save it on your end in any form as well unless I know you and explicitly give you consent.
×Entitled dominants who expect honorifics or my submission before we even know each other or have a relationship/contract formed; pretentious people.
×If you ghost me I will exorcise you out of my dms. Have the integrity to at least be honest about your intentions.
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Soft Limits
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•Sexting: I don't like it but would be open to it after some stable offline dynamic has formed.

•Chastity: I don't like it in general. If we decide that I should try it, then I will hold its access and have physical control of it even if I will mostly be following your commands/instructions for it or predecided rules.

•Open to conditional CNC once something stable has formed.

•I am not into feet and won't put my mouth on it to suck it but I am open to it being part of stimulation intended for arousal (but feet must not be the only thing).

• Presently not open to penetrative sex or french kissing with men and only into kink play or most other sensual interactions. Exception is a threesome involving a cis or nb girl. This would likely change in future. Doesn't apply to toys or anything else.
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I value clear and honest communication. I will know more as I gain experience.