Im an independent woman, and yet to find a man that I don’t have to ask for help but see that I need it and do it without question. A man that’s not scared off easily. A man that’s mature enough to talk about what’s on his mind. A man that takes control sexually and knows what I need and what I want, when I want it hard and deep and when I need it soft and slow.

I love being tied up and trusting that man to keep me safe and know when I say peach he stops and doesn’t get ed off about it but makes sure I’m ok and talk through what I didn’t like and why.

I’m very open and honest and my bluntness can be off putting but I don’t want to waste peoples time if it’s not what I want or who I want.

I am a very loving and giving person but I know when I’m being taken for granted and if that happens I won’t tell you, I’ll just be gone.

I’m also a mother of 1 daughter and 2 boys. I won’t be having anymore. I’m not interested in time wasters but genuine people to make a connection with.

I also need to make it clear for those who have a problem with not getting a response back, it will take much longer to say (I’m sorry I’m not interested but good luck and stay safe) when deleting it would be much faster. I’d be here all day otherwise lol…. so it’s not me being rude.

This is for the poor sensitive souls that don’t like being ignored and feel they are entitled to bitch and moan thank you…..

I know this description is a lot, but I’m a big girl and don’t have time to play childish games I have for that. Most people don’t take the time to read and just look at pictures. You can tell I’m a serious woman so I want serious men not boys pretending to be men.

I’m sure I have a few that are a 100% no but I’m still getting my head around this so please just ask it’s safer