I'm gender indifferent in my attractions and a vers-bottom. I serve fluffy genderfuk, a beardy enby silver femme-bear. I lean slightly towards the furry; maybe more accurate to call me a cutesie, I love cute beings of untold power from animated sci-fi and fantasy -- planet destroying cuteness.

I like parties. I like watching, being watched and being in group scenes. I'm curious about restraints and flogs or soft paddles. I like nipple sensations and spanking but... There's no sub/ dom dynamic with me; when you strike the skin of my rump, I physically enjoy it and why would I pretend that I don't. It's like pretending not to enjoy a hot curry.

I've yet to find a chilli that defeated me, and I grow Carolina Reapers. Has anyone wanted to receive oral from a chilli head? Give me your tongue, cock, cunt or 'oop, see how it reacts to my chilli mouth.

(Edit: I take my chilli sauce with me to clubs that serve food, 10-15 % homegrown Carolina Reapers. After smothering cheesy chips with the stuff, I usually wash my mouth well with plenty of water and wait until it has calmed down before I press my lips to another person's body parts. This one time I didn't wait long enough or rinse well enough after chilli, and rimmed a guy in a pigpen before fucking. He felt the sensation, and that has now maybe become a thing, having given him the same a second time round one month later)

I go to SaunaSauna in Northwich for their monthly 14hr bi party 1st Friday each month (I usually go for 5 hours, leaving 11ish). They've just introduced a bonus bi day on the 4th Saturday of any 5 Saturday month (so from Spring 2026 that's: 23rd May, 22nd August and October 24th. They also do 2 bi parties in December. I go to other bi events or an afternoon at a gay sauna as and when the mood takes me.

2023, Eostre: after 12 years, I married my love, an AS homoro. Everything I do here, I do with his informed consent and encouragement.

Anyone looking for a drummer? I'm in to hard proggy rock, gentle proggy folk, proggy cartoon techno-pop, indulgent proggy indie-jazz. I jam guitar too. I also dazzle on the rusty trombone!!

Srsly, let's jam.

People with usernames, profiles or updates with the word "bored" near the top — such a turn off. Only boring people get bored. Only one bigger turn off — profiles with fuck all personality. I'm not here to get fucked by a blank sheet of fuckin' A4 copier paper.

No yellow, no intentional poop, no puke. No red. Try not to bruise. No hickies. Not interested in being ch0ked, no hairpulling. If my mouth touches it, it's gotta taste clean.

Or taste of chilli.