Often times a conversation can build up expectations and make a person feel seen and desired, which is great, but what happens when you've said it all or you've given just enough to appease the one shining a light on you? Silence. Is the answer. A lot of times I'm being asked what I'm looking for and when I elaborate I get the sales pitch. But then here comes the pivot of pick me into do this for me, do that for me. Let me see this, let me see that. 😤
I'm looking too. Let's not forget and don't get it twisted. Just because I'm submissive doesn't mean I'm going to just forget what I'm looking for...so what am I looking for? Impress me. That's what I'm looking for. Peacock me until I'm fucking colorblind. Dance for me until I follow you back to the nest. Fight for me and win.