Welcome, I’m Steve. Neurospicy, sensitive empath who loves life. Addicted to music, just love it. And all things nature.

I’m a writer and spend most of my time sticking up for the misunderstood. Also a part time CE truck driver.

I’m both Dom and Sub. Best of both worlds.

I struggled to answer the question about sadist that said “do I enjoy causing to others”.
I have a massive protective and empathetic instinct. Sadist 0.
In an agreed context, sadist is 10/10. Not that I enjoy causing , but if it’s what someone wants and it makes them happy and fulfilled (safe/sane), I enjoy meeting that need and pleasing others. The right is pleasure.

People read my profile and see words like sensitivity and see a lack of dominance score and assume they won’t have their submissive desires fulfilled.

The reality is I’m capable of leading when needed, responsive rather than ful. I am grounded, not performative. You get the real me. This is a very different kind of dominance than what some people expect.

Shy at first. After very confident. I won’t present myself as someone I’m not.

I’m new to exploring this with other people, so I’ll be honest, I can be a bit nervous at first. But I’m not new to understanding what I enjoy or how I think about this. Loved kink since ***age years.

I’m very attentive, and I take time to understand what someone likes and respond to it properly.

Although I lean slightly more submissive by nature, I’m genuinely comfortable on both sides of the dynamic. I’m very open to taking a leading role where it fits, especially if it’s something you enjoy.

Open to most things. We'll have to discuss trust and my own sensitivity.