I'm a Dom looking for a submissive woman within reach of the Northwest of England
About me: I'm an experienced wide ranging dominant, I sometimes say "compassionate sadist", because I will enjoy giving and making you cry with objectification and more - but also I will bring you back with a hug and care. Because I think that contrast between darkness and light is really hot.

I have a primary partner who is looking for her own (f) subs, she is happy that I have my own good relationships with sub women. She's cool. We've shared subs before, and may do again one day, but I am looking for a 1 to 1 with my own sub, I'm not interested in 1 night stands, or casual really. I prefer to develop the intensity over time.

I enjoy emotional & psychological control such as orgasm denial, mental bondage, the beautiful power exchange.

I love to give to those who enjoy it and I enjoy spending time with women who enjoy being reduced to nothing, who crave that and which is mental and emotional but becomes physical. I specialise in what could be called compassionate *, I train the sub to surrender her will and then to offer everything to her owner, and she feels good about it.
I love the progression - from the moment where the sub first relinquishes her control, and the the slow building of trust and the conditioning over time which lets the submissive become a wordless mindless who exists to serve, and finds pleasure only in achieving that. It's the best thing in the world.

Desires and Fantasies**

fantasy 1: I purchase land in Wales and construct a subterranean BDSM lair. I kidnap my victims and imprison them there, slowly inducing Stockholm syndrome through retraining until they are completely altered to my special needs.

fantasy 2: I start a cult. everyone is absolutely ecstatic about the slow descent into depravity. we all achieve nirvana. the old gods greet us in the next dimension and congratulate us all on our unique path. they give out awards and show highlight on an old projector. Cthulhu is there. fully erect.

Poop and kids are my limits. Also extreme harm, such as breaking bones or people. Also, NO sugar babies, or similar grifters.