IF WE HAVE NOT MET, OR SEEN YOU PLAY
(by association on friends lists, its often its seen by others as a form of saying 'this person is OK) AND I DONT KNOW YOU,,,NO OFFENCE I WILL NOT EXCEPT FRIENDSHIP REQUESTS

Im 62 live in the Essex on the D list celb playground init brov, sowfend on ouze) but job takes me all over the place, been into bdsm for bout 25 years and had 3 long term relationships in that time, (thinks> in relationship it's better than just play or sceneing, though nothing wrong with that if thats what both want).

Have all the usual kit from floggers, varied selection to canes, floggers knives and electrical stimulants!My wand may not be as big as other blokes but at least its not been surgicly enharnced!!

BIG LIKES> Edge,breath, needles, staples, knives,swords, and Blowtorch play
BIG DISLIKES> Clingy subs

“In some ways suffering ceases to be suffering at the moment it finds a meaning, such as the meaning of a sacrifice.”
― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

After a long talk with my SCRUFFLEY, i have to admit its not the D/s thing i like, oh i can do the 'I COMMAND YOU TO....(make me a cup of tea / breakfast/ clean floor with tounge / wash car with 2 sponges tied to your tits/ lick my wlley clean after sex / service my friends / count out loud the number of strokes of cane, flogger / whip etc / more silly task / . just like all the other proper Doms, i can even wear a black leather waiste coat and 'strides' with a number of floggers hanging from my belt ans evn wear a gold medalion round my neck...BUT.... for me.....ITS REALLY JUST ABOUT 'HURTING' others !!!!

SO',,,,
if you see me at a do, and like the way i do things, you only have to ask, im more than willing to to hurt you in a nice way that is !

scruffly recorded how to do sex program on tv for me last night, the BDSM edition,,,i never knew for years ive been doing this bondage thing wrong,,leave a fingergers width between the cuffs and the skin, dont use rope (thats for 'experts'), if you get permission i can build up the intensity of spanking ? PERMISSION ???
Do I have to apply to the council or some other civil body for this permission ?

Ive been doing this bdsm-ey stuff for over 20 years and always willing to pass on what ive learnt to those that have ears to hear and eyes to see

FEAR IS THE MIND KILLER

a tip a very old ' tail end charley ' (GOOGLE IT ) and then became in the 1950's a dog handler and later became oldest SWO (goggle Station Warent Officer) ,,,EVER, in the RAF, well beyond retirement age, but then there aint many tail end charleys with a VC !
TOLD ME SOME STUNNING ADVICE, which i have lived my life too, which to date has sadly proved correct..............

ALWAYS EXPECT THE WORST IN
EVENTS, PLANING, PEOPLE AND ORGANISATIONS ..

UNTIL

they prove they are the best, to be trusted & relied on

THAT WAY YOU WILL NOT BE DISAPPOINTED IN LIFE

LOYALTY AND SHARED EVENTS IS THE 'KEY'