**before you begin, while I loooove age gaps I don't get into agePLAY in any way shape or form. You do you, but despite the 'Daddy' vibes, I don't like it. With that said...

I've always known I was kinky, though early in life I never really pursued submissive women before. However, in my relationships, in the bedroom, I've always been the one in control. Then over the years my tastes became more and more.. refined. Wicked. Evil. It started out maybe with some hair-pulling here, an ass-slap there. A good hard crack in the mouth. Then the taunting. "You like that, don't you?"... and eventually I found myself with my hand around my girlfriend's throat, spitting in her face, and forcing her to knees at my feet.. and further still on all fours to give my boots a good polish with her tongue.

Despite being a rather chill and pleasant person I have a mean streak a mile wide, and have found that it takes a special kind of girl to be able to handle the particular brand of abbuse I absolutely loooove dishing out. Abbuse which can range from very subtle, simple, and discrete to the overt, extreme, and downright cruel. Unfair. Unforgiving even. She should expect to be a vessel for that. Be excited about it even. Eager and enthusiastic. Dutiful and attentive. A shameless little slut. A willing victim. Complicit in her own defiling.

I'm an artist by trade and inspiration is a very big thing for me. I find that plans almost always fall through anyway and anything that's born out of the moment is infinitely more satisfying IMHO. I say this as sort of an explanation to my 'style' as a Dom. I can be very unpredictable and chaotic. I might let you get away with something on Monday that you may get called out for on Tuesday. And despite not being a mood-driven individual, I do find that my mood almost always determines how I wish to be approached and how you will be treated at any given moment. To me it adds an extra level of spontaneity and excitement to the whole thing. Predictability while comforting can be utterly boring sometimes. Don't you agree? Though having said all of that, providing and craving stability is still a priority for me. It's not all chaos. And if you're the type of submissive who needs lots of rules and structure, etc, well I certainly provide that as well.

I don't believe your submission to me should stop at the bedroom either. If I own you, you are -mine- and I'll do as I please with you. Whenever, wherever. Thought truth be told I enjoy a 24/7* dynamic more than just straight up 24/7. I don't ONLY ever want to be a Dom all the time. That would be boring too.

Mainly I'm looking for the kind of submissive/slave that wants to be shaped and molded into the ultimate fulfillment of my desires. The living embodiment of things that pleasure and delight me. Yet at the same time be able to not lose herself entirely under my control. I want to dominate a person, a personality, not program some android sex-bot automaton that needs to be micro-managed every step of the way. I might as well just jerk off at that point.

Right now I'm looking for anything from play partners, to friends, to potential slaves, pets, prey, toys. Primarily a new little plaything who I can pass off as my girlfriend. And on that note my favorite types are petite women, pale skinned redheads, anyone with green eyes, pretty feet, who's sweet and good-natured, friendly, generous, empathetic, caring, insatiable, a little weird or eccentric, ( or maybe a lot ), artistic, stylish, cute, nerdy, edgey, dark, spooky.

Having said that my tastes in women- and in life- are really quite varied. As long as you're interest-ing I'll be interest-ed. Also please FFS don't get hung up on my holy grail of hotness and feel the need to list the ways you don't add up. That's not a list of criteria you need to meet, just some things I find particularly appealing. Don't be compelled to point out you don't have red hair, or green eyes, or whatever the fuck else. Why not point out what you DO have that you think will drive me wild instead, hm?

Aaaaand on that note please don't be shy. Feel free to message me and make the first move if you like the vibe here. Provided you haven't been crushed to death by this mountain of text of course. It's the 2020s ladies. How 'bout you chase us around a lil for a change, eh?

Mostly looking for women, but AFAB enbys I'll consider on a case by case basis too.

***, age regression, rudeness disguised as 'bratting', and no hitting or fighting me unless we talked about it beforehand. I'm not the masochist here after all.