Seeking a relationship exclusively with a woman including kink.

I want someone who will be my partner and equal in life and a sub in the bedroom, or wherever else being a sub would be fun and satisfying

It's not all sex is it? I have passing interests in art, theatre, astronomy, astrophysics, Sudoku, other newspaper puzzles, DIY, property management, theology and psychotherapy. I play guitar (badly). I trained as an electrician. Housework = keeping it just above slovenly. I like bees but hate slugs. I don't like buttons (now that IS weird!) or tripe (and, yes, I have tried it - twice). I'm an INTJ to those who know what that means. like to think I can be funny, but that's for you to judge.

OK, so I'm new to the Kink thing, BUT I'd like to meet a woman who's prepared to explore being a Sub and who will accept that I may make mistakes. But if I do make a mistake and the safe word is used it all stops and the Sub is comforted and reassured. End of. It was my mistake. That's my understanding of how it works. Ideally sufficient discussion has been had so as to minimise the chance of a mistake or misunderstanding in the first place.
Restraint and administering corporal punishment would be my particular, society might say 'peculiar', interest. It's something we may need to work towards.

Desires and Fantasies
Disciplining the errant partner, bad secretary, naughty girl etc
Requiring submission in dress, posture, level of restraint(s)
Bringing the sub to a satisfactory conclusion too

Blood play.
Pissing.
Playing with cum.
Squirting.
Spitting.
Anything that isn't consensual.
I don't like tripe, buttons, large/extensive tattoos or wasps