I've been fascinated by bdsm and kink as far back as I can remember. I'm no "expert" but I do have experience in my preferred role/dynamic and I'm always willing to learn and accommodate other people's needs, within my boundaries and hard limits. I love to connect with other people over this lifestyle and share thoughts, ideas, feelings and knowledge. I love expanding my knowledge on bdsm and kink and you can often find me reading or watching something on those subjects.
My preferred role/dynamic is pleasure domination, though I do have a sadistic side that I like to indulge from time to time. My main "thing" is pleasure, however, and my enjoyment is directly linked to the pleasure my play partners experience, the build up, the anticipation, their yearning, their need for release and their eventual climax.
Hard skills include basic restrictions, using my hands to give both pleasure and ***, caning and anal.
Soft skills are my priority. I want to create the safest, most open and embracing environment possible for my play partners, since my belief, backed with years of experience, is that both deep submission and intense pleasure can only be achieved when the person feels safe and relaxed and cared for.
Safe, Sane and Consensual are words that I live by.
Hard limits are , , needles and knives