I am going away for a while. My single toggle will be off till I am back.
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Only try to connect with me if you intend to meet soon. If I have to tell you how to be a dominant then you are not the right dominant for me. I am not a sissy. And please don't use or save my photos.
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I am here to seriously explore real life d/s relationship/dynamic among other things (like platonic friends and stuff). I am a switch in kink, but right now I mostly want to explore as a submissive (I won't switch with the same person); outside of kink I am kind of undefined. I am inexperienced sexually but I have good understanding of sex, kink, and bdsm dynamics. I am looking for a dominant kink partner (and friends) who gives me exposure to new experiences and adventures.
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I am a very dynamic person, an ambivert (but more introverted rn), and therefore, like a lot of things. I am looking for a partner who isn't rigid and is open to new perspectives. I enjoy and don't cringe at being authentic and unfiltered. I don't want anything or anyone superficial.
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I am girl/feminine side leaning genderfluid. I want to explore and develop my feminine/girl self authentically and build confidence/comfort in being able to overtly express that prominent side of me, which I am hoping to do with the support of those I find here. I intend to only/mostly be in girl identity with my kink partner, especially as a submissive. I have an amab body (no hrt yet, can explain/discuss; exploring my options right now). My body is good for both amab and afab partners. Into guys mostly for kink & fun. My serious love interest is cis girls and not-butch nb afabs. (Note: What is written in this description is not intended for primary relationship because I don't expect to find one here; if we are looking in that direction, it is a whole separate discussion, please don't assume anything.)
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I seriously prefer a dependable dominant in the relationship who can, as needed or mutually desired, cover things like: dates, kink stuff (at the very least even if you can't manage other things), and outfits for play time or going out based on your taste (because I mostly have gender-neutral or androgynous clothes). This is because I am not independent and a student right now; it is unintentional. I am not comfortable calling someone daddy or mommy but I am curious about daddy/mommy/master and princess dynamic (it is not necessary though).
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The following things are a big NO. I am open to exploration outside of what is listed.
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×/serious /, unhygienic (, , butthole licking, etc.), and other risky/hazardous stuff.
×Manipulation (especially gaslighting, it is a total hard limit and I will cut off immediately).
×Non-sexual and demeaning words (dirty talk and calling me slutty stuff is enjoyable but shaming me and stuff like that is not).
×Serious sadomasochism is hard limit. Light stuff that doesn't break any limits is ok and enjoyable.
×Posting my photos where I can be recognized in any way or without my consent. You are not allowed to save it on your end in any form as well unless I know you and explicitly give you consent.
×Entitled dominants who expect honorifics or my submission before we even know each other or have a relationship/contract formed; pretentious people.
×If you ghost me I will exorcise you out of my dms. Have the integrity to at least be honest about your intentions.
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Soft Limits
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•Sexting: I don't like it but would be open to it after some stable offline dynamic has formed.
•Chastity: I don't like it in general. If we decide that I should try it, then I will hold its access and have physical control of it even if I will mostly be following your commands/instructions for it or predecided rules.
•Open to conditional CNC once something stable has formed.
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I value clear and honest communication. I will know more as I gain experience.