I’m Martin. I’ve been into kink for well over a decade now but new to this site.

Have a vanilla life (job, house, car etc) and like keeping my private life just that, but am very different behind closed doors. I prefer playing on the edgier end of the BDSM spectrum, it’s not just about kinky sex, it’s so much deeper than that. Rough as I am in play, I’m also tactile and give great aftercare.

I’d much prefer one regular partner where we can explore and develop together; I’d probably suit best someone with experience but I’m very happy to help newbies find their feet as well. I know I won’t be everyone’s cup of tea, so looking for that shot of whiskey!

Happy to chat and give more detail in messages, the best sort of kinky relationship is built on trust and communication, so let’s have plenty of that first. I’m also open to the social aspect too - am happy meeting for drinks, food or whatever else.

In the interests of being open and honest, I will say I have a girlfriend - we are in a committed ENM relationship, so we are free to date other people - but I do have the time for regular meets, socials and building a 2nd relationship. However if you’re not OK with that, then I understand totally, some people don’t want to share!

Hope we speak soon...

None I’ve found so far, except the usual kids, family, permanent damage and super duper illegal stuff