Naturally kinky empath. I thought I was a switch as I am masochistic but I really enjoy being dominant because I get so much pleasure from giving pleasure. I am not really a sadist but I enjoy giving pain if that is your pleasure. I love sailing, and rope work is second nature. I really don't like labels or the idea of anything being set or fixed. A chair designer said the most comfortable position is the next one. I think the biggest turn-on is the next one. I am an artist/sculptor, and I have way too much creativity and I am good at designing and making things for fun.
I am 90% heterosexual and have not explored the 10%, so an mmf threesome is something I would consider. Ffm, no consideration is needed. Not into humiliation or scat.
I am still living in the family home with four kids 9-14, and I get on really well with my wife, who is totally dedicated to celibacy. Life is good. Nothing is permanent. We are all made from stardust.

scat, blood, violence, kiddy anything