I am Dutch, but I'm not actually Dutch. In fact, I'm English, but that's irrelevant.

My permanent-room-mate/filthy assistant, and I are in a long term relationship that has lasted more than a decade. She supports me and cares for me, like I do her.

With changes over the past few months, I'm taking a slight step back from being a Domly One. I still like to spank, flog, torture, and watch play partners squirm in agony and pleasure, but I also just want to hug and cuddles, kiss, and fuck about. Thinking on it I just want everyone to enjoy my body, their body, everyone's bodies and pleasure, making me a bit of Altruistic Hedonist.
Mollymauk Tealeaf can be blamed for this inspiration I think.
I do like to top from the bottom, but I'm definitely not submissive. Struggling to be on top with another, trying to pin the other down, ending up sweating and gasping in a tangle of limbs, and then collapsing afterwards into a pile, sounds like a great time to me.

On that note, I'm definitely not the submissive type, and I have a hard limit against being restrained with any kind of rope or cuffs. It gets me extremely anxious, and I might put on a brave face, I'm screaming inside.

Finally, I'm very touchy and affectionate. Again with the hugging and cuddling, the lounging around on a sofa with others, feeling them pressed against me, kissing foreheads and necks. I need touch most of the time. It's reassuring, and without it I feel despondent.

Desires and Fantasies
Restraints, chains, orgasm denial, DDlg, DDlb, orgies, more to come.