welcome to my dark little corner of fetish.com
people who know me call me Ed,
I’m an experienced but always learning and evolving South East London Dom . I love music and kink the problem is I’m not sure what I enjoy more, I love to DJ live so if I invite you to chill with some tunes and a drink socially at mine it’s 100-% my intention. It’s entirely your choice if you can make me change my intention.

As a Dom I can be that guy you snuggle with and also Mr sadistic guy with the big whip
when/how,?
well that depends on which you want to find ?

I consider every sub different and subsequently treat them as such so you will never hear me say I'm an expert as realistically how can you be when everyone is different

I wear my heart on my sleeve quite often and although i have some dark sadistic kinks at times i'm always looking to help a sub grow, learn, expand and feel safe and happy.

I want a sub to know whatever happens im behind them
A good Dom allows a sub to soar freely while keeping them safe from falling
(good god thats mushy lol)

as a point of honesty I have Parkinsons which is controlled by medication this has 2 slight drawbacks.

One being that i have to stay local to home as if my medication starts to drop i need to be able to lay down almost straight away (although recently I have been prescribed with diazepam which has made this less of an issue)

The second being that levadopa and Ropinerole the medications commonly used to treat PD cause impulsive behaviour and can accentuate any type of addictive behavior so I do suffer from HYPERSEXUALITY at times.
I unfortunately don’t have any effect on reducing this so if i'm being OTT you can guarantee when the effects lessen i will realise ive been an ass lol


THAT BEING SAID PARKINSONS MEDICATION ISSUES AFFECTS ME CUMULATIVELY FOR ABOUT HOUR OR TWO A DAY GENERALLY AND THE EFFECT AND TJME IS MASSIVELY REDUCED WITH POSITIVE DISTRACTIONS SO ISNT A MASSIVE ISSUE
I ALSO DJ WHICH IS ANOTHER POSITIVE DISTRACTION ( you may find you have to do something special to get me away from my decks at times but I’m sure you will find a way ??

To be honest the hyper sexuality and needs to be local can unfortunately make me seem like im only looking for one thing and just trying to get people back to my house for one night stands
One night stands are fine but if you are looking for something regular (ie ongoing FWB) or indeed something more serious then I’m open to that and ultimately would like to have a LTR. That said every Relationship and dynamic doesn’t start out as king term so I am always open to allowing things to work out however they do

That being said I’m not a hook up merchant that’s not my not my motivation and in terms of safety
I’m always willing to give details to be left with a safe call including my full name and my address (I’ll also send you some form of proof that I am who I say I am.

I'm definitely not an axe murderer they don’t usually give out their address and number beforehand lol
I can assure you i'm very gladly open to a long term ongoing dynamic (something else that axe murderers are not known to be open to lol)

if you want to know more about me please message me and ask.
Please don’t assume that my Parkinson’s is a reason to pass me by.
That would be a mistake on your part..

Also Communication in large doses is paramount to me if this bothers you u shouldnt stop here
as it won’t work

That said I know I can overdo it so polite honesty is good also

NO GHOSTING I will lay a thermonuclear level smackdown on you
NO TIME FOR GHOSTERS
IF YOU DECIDE YOU DON’T WANT TO CHAT ANYMORE BE BRAVE ENOUGH TO SAY
that being said I’m open to chat so feel free (unfortunately being ghosted has left me with an occasional hint of feeling insecure at times so please do let me know if you don’t want to chat anymore as I can be bloody minded and determined to get a response

so many see a list of kinks and think it’s all in black and white. …..
the answers are often grey ask me i'm open to so many things

Desires and Fantasies
Please ask me they’re massively diverse as am I

A tiny box of words isn’t enough to describe or to know me that’s where you have to come in

ask as this section is very much causing issues by appearing as two different things on different platforms