Kind, assured and driven man new to South West and looking to connect for regular meets and sharing a d/s dynamic, and hopefully more. Naturally dominant in my day to day, and have identified as a dom for many years. the last 4 years or sonl I have also found and explored my submissive side, which has been enlightening and thrilling. Looking for real life meets for any level of relationship from casual friends to LTR.
I have a range of experience in bdsm dynamics spanning over 25 years but would still very much find myself stilllearnig from people, he community, and lived experience.
A huge turn on for me is the phycological aspects, and dance, associated eith power exchange. The great gift that is someone's submission and, the thrill in the unknown and sensual overload in anticipation. And the responsibility of the dom to empathise, nurture, plan, take responsibility, and provide care and sanctuary. All balanced with the structure, rigidity and sadistic basis of such dynamics.
My dom style is mischievously cruel as opposed to rough. I revel in the mind games and witnessing the emotions play out as control, shame, arousal, ness, compete with others in the willful yielding of total control to another.
As a sub I can push harder, shed of the responsibilities of choice and pride, eager to please and serve, and obey.
While I enjoy most acts within bdsm play, tease, denail, and punishments when called upon, it is not the , or any individual act of bdsm which primarily motivates me.

, , non-consent, underage