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Geschlecht Mann
Alter 49
Beziehungsstatus kein Single
Größe 172cm
Gewicht 87kg
Figur normal
Augenfarbe braun
Haarfarbe braun
Haarlänge kurz
Sexualität hetero
Typ Europäer
Herkunft Norwegen
Körperbehaarung leicht behaart
Penislänge 16cm
Sternzeichen Wassermann
Brille
Raucher
Tattoos
Piercings
Sprachen Deutsch
Englisch

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i think a misunderstanding in what i was asking just led someone who was 100%0an hour earlier suddenly block me. That's their right. nothing is guaranteed. But cant we be decent and not let someone feel bad wondering what they did wrong. in this case i think they thought it was doing something tha i made clear I'd never do. sucks becZusni was enjoying the banter.

OK....just realizing i was on my way out the door when someone caught my attemtion. i had deleted my profile. IF I KEEP TAPPING YOU AND I SEE YOU KEEP LOOKING AT ME, IT IS BECAUSE I WAS CANCELLING AND HAVE NO MEMBERSHIP AND YOU ARE SET FOR NO CONTACT FROM FREE ACCTS. PLEASE DROP A MESSAGE IF INTERESTED IN TALKING. So, I came to this world and am still very DL because some of us have to be, but I dipped my toe with a pro domina as a sub. Which I enjoyed, but she identified im more the (uh, oh...alphabetas hate this) compassionate dom. I will bring impact play, some of which I learned from the pro I saw, and to the level you want and maybe push. But I am session domming only so what I want is to help you reach that extreme to you, whatever that is defined as, no matter if someone thinks it is weak, etc. Im the DJ, but you provide the records I can select. I am sensual domming, and i am also a lover of vanilla or vanilla with sprinkles, or of using each other (nothing I can consider is long term or public) to try kinks and wiggles and left turns we can't just drop in the world at large. Tester models.. I have reasons, you have reasons, but my situation si I like to meet with the same person over time occasionally, almost like a cosplay of intimacy, a kink of being in love for those moments, enjoying each other, but then returning to our worlds because we have reasons. Could be sexless, could be sort of hall pass....we are adults and will respect each others boundaries accordingly. Have some experience as 3rd in couples plus one, understand the dynamic, preservation of the couple comes first, make sure not to get in the way...the campfire rule and all that (leave the situation equal to or better than how you arrived).

Best yet....JUST ASK ME.. I'm happy to answer any questions or just chat. Yes, my goal is real physical connection and the pleasures that come with that. But I am not just GOTTA GIT LAID. I enjoy back and forth about things, conversations. Intellectual curiosity is the greatest turn on. And eyes. But mostly intellectual curiosity. I like lots of types, cant say I have a type, but I do enjoy FWB wtih older to even much older women. Its a nurturing thing and a shedding of societal norms that I find fun.

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  • 30.04.2026 20:15:02
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  • 20.04.2026 18:41:55
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i think a misunderstanding in what i was asking just led someone who was 100%0an hour earlier suddenly block me. That's their right. nothing is guaranteed. But cant we be decent and not let someone feel bad wondering what they did wrong. in this case i think they thought it was doing something Weiterlesen… tha i made clear I'd never do. sucks becZusni was enjoying the banter.

OK....just realizing i was on my way out the door when someone caught my attemtion. i had deleted my profile. IF I KEEP TAPPING YOU AND I SEE YOU KEEP LOOKING AT ME, IT IS BECAUSE I WAS CANCELLING AND HAVE NO MEMBERSHIP AND YOU ARE SET FOR NO CONTACT FROM FREE ACCTS. PLEASE DROP A MESSAGE IF INTERESTED IN TALKING. So, I came to this world and am still very DL because some of us have to be, but I dipped my toe with a pro domina as a sub. Which I enjoyed, but she identified im more the (uh, oh...alphabetas hate this) compassionate dom. I will bring impact play, some of which I learned from the pro I saw, and to the level you want and maybe push. But I am session domming only so what I want is to help you reach that extreme to you, whatever that is defined as, no matter if someone thinks it is weak, etc. Im the DJ, but you provide the records I can select. I am sensual domming, and i am also a lover of vanilla or vanilla with sprinkles, or of using each other (nothing I can consider is long term or public) to try kinks and wiggles and left turns we can't just drop in the world at large. Tester models.. I have reasons, you have reasons, but my situation si I like to meet with the same person over time occasionally, almost like a cosplay of intimacy, a kink of being in love for those moments, enjoying each other, but then returning to our worlds because we have reasons. Could be sexless, could be sort of hall pass....we are adults and will respect each others boundaries accordingly. Have some experience as 3rd in couples plus one, understand the dynamic, preservation of the couple comes first, make sure not to get in the way...the campfire rule and all that (leave the situation equal to or better than how you arrived).

Best yet....JUST ASK ME.. I'm happy to answer any questions or just chat. Yes, my goal is real physical connection and the pleasures that come with that. But I am not just GOTTA GIT LAID. I enjoy back and forth about things, conversations. Intellectual curiosity is the greatest turn on. And eyes. But mostly intellectual curiosity. I like lots of types, cant say I have a type, but I do enjoy FWB wtih older to even much older women. Its a nurturing thing and a shedding of societal norms that I find fun.
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  • 13.02.2026 20:40:43
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Aren't we all looking for something kinky? One particular one I rarely do anything with is a smoking fetish. I do not smoke...but I love baking out with a woman who is smoking. It can be femdom or not....just touching/manual and making out heavy while smoking (cigarettes, not 420). I have Weiterlesen… other kinks, and love to explore. Certainly there are so many people on there and it can be paralyzing to know who you should or shouldn't. So let us keep this one simple :)
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  • 21.01.2026 9:39:46
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  • 19.07.2025 13:45:54
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  • 12.05.2025 14:31:15
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I do play with theD/s dynamic in session but not lifestyle. Up front about that, and it's not the main driver. VANILLA IS MY FAVORITE FLAVOR. Sometimes I want to add or enhance..sprinkles or whatever, and my kink list knows no end but isn't required either.bam a pleasure provider that hopes you Weiterlesen… are too so we both can enjoy our time :) some turn ons include couple play, but not generally in the D or s role, just special guest (and I have some flexibility there to make myself a real utility player), and GFE/BFE (using terms from outside this world) where you carry out a physical affair but for an overnight stay or similar, you are romantic and loving and lovebombing...kind of cosplaying a relationship. Maybe you have a long term partner that you don't want to leave, but you want to feel seen again,...this allows an itch to be scratched that doesn't put you in jeopardy....I also have a smoking fetish, though I am a non-smoker. Go figure. But for those moments when turned on , the fetish is alive. Party tolerant, maybe a couple times a year No judgment if yhou are more regular. Watersports curious . None of these define me or are required. I can craft scenes, respond to crafted scenes, or ad lib... To pound the ice cream idea..Vanilla is my favorite ice cream . But sometimes sprinkles are fun. I enjoy all the varieties and am mostly about providing pleasure. And pleasure through *** if you are into impact play. Mostly, I have approached the things that I can do to provide pleasure as science and academics in some cases I believe in the passion of the moment. But I also believe willingness and technique finish the deal. I am fallible and ever learning. Intellectual curiosity are the two most important words shoved together in the English language
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  • 12.05.2025 14:18:09
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== My BDSM Test from Fetish.com ==
83% Dominant
60% Submissive
== My roles ==
83% Sadist
78% Master/Mistress
75% Caregiver
60% Masochist
43% Brat Tamer
38% Rigger
30% Rope Bunny
30% Degrader
25% Slave
25% Brat
25% Hunter
0% Degradee
0% Little
0% Prey
0% Pet Owner
0% Weiterlesen… Pet
https://www.fetish.com/result/vLfSM9AP/
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83%
Dominant

60%
Submissive

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My number one desire in you? Be intellectually curious. That isn't education level, etc. Just be able to think about things in curious ways, allow yourself to be awed. I love a lot of body types and hair styles and such. But Being present in the moment and pushing boundries is not Weiterlesen… peculiar...it's intellectual curiosity., the biggest turn on of all. I am a sensual but session only dom (overused term...will play role in dynamic to serve sub, with a professional (not real pro) approach who reacts to what I read, matches energy + seeing how far you want to go on yellow. Fetishist with a box of such too big to name, bujt am interested in vanilla to severe, and have found space for all. Have learned some impact play from a pro Dom, not likely to be your conduit to being humilted abd degred unless physical only. I value you, even if you don't, and any good Dom should. Dom is overused, including by me...not a lot of true ones, and I am only looking for sessions or hookups couched in this dynamic. I can be comfortable with equal exchange in fetishist setting. Newest fetish, though, is an odd one...strangers, or FWB, fuckbuddies, whatever...meet up to spend the night together and cosplay romance. We are in love for 24 hours...get the goosebumps, butterflies, dote on the other, enjoy company...then zip away, only to do it again sometime down the road.

I am the normalist not normal person you will meet. The safest risk. I want to push boundaries, but at the pleasure of all in the vehicle at this moment, not for cheap gains while leaving others exposed. I want you to be curious, kinky, and hopefully at ease, and I guarantee we will enjoy our time. But I am not going to lie to you about what it is.

And, in case my sledgehammer name isn't hammery enough, I very much enjoy the party with the play as an enhancer, though that is only in more vanilla options...I don't bring that kind of energy or confusion to a scene with dynamics that are uneven. It is not a big part of my life...I partake maybe 10 times a year. I don't judge your use or others...just I believe it only remains such an amazing enhancer if it is left alone for long periods. But it def is fun and a fetish of mine. What is the "it" i am referencing, if you don't know? The same one that this prhase always means. Popsicles, of course.

Ability to riff in a conversation, extrapolate it out to funny or absurd measures, ability to tell a story? Sexiest things on this planet.

let me know how I can make you feel more comfortable. This is a big leap. And it is indulgent...we will be indulgent. But you have to have dessert sometime.

I do have experience int his world. I have not participated in the communities because I do have to maintain a form of anonymity professionally and personally. And that sucks. But it isn't changing. I respect the same in reverse. My experience is both learned from professionals and some trial and error.
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*** and degredation that isn't fully physical
waste products
physical reminders on skin
IRL contact
Breath play, beyond the softest of choking. He says he knows how to do it safely? He's lying.
Bondage other than for show (easily shed) on first meet. Please, keep this as a rule, too. I know of Weiterlesen… too many horror stories)
CNC scenes without negotiated checkpoints
anyone under 35. I think a decade really is the most you should vary. I can come off of this for a severe age kink/daddy kink, but it is a pretty hard and fast rule
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