I'm Mike. I have two young kids and I work in HVAC.

I'm a geek; I play D&D (3.5), I love science fiction and fantasy, I also love science in general (I'm slightly obsessed with thermodynamics). I play guitar and sing. I was an audio engineer in another life and I used to make music under the name Cuddly Psycho (it's on SoundCloud if you want to hear it).

Favorite Writers/Intellectuals (because "If you go home with someone and they don't have books, don't fuck them": Douglas Adams, Phillip K. Dick, Sam Harris, Penn Jillette, Lawrence Kraus, Hunter S. Thompson, & Isaac Asimov to name a few.

I vape and I'm very 420 friendly, but tobacco smokers are a hard limit for me.

I'm a Buddhist. I try to meditate and do yoga every day when I can (so far not as much as I'd like, but I'm getting better about it).

I love music! Some band/artists off the top of my head that I couldn't live without: Tool, NIN, Animal Collective, Fiona Apple, Antonio Carlos Jobim, Aphex Twin, Squarepusher, Cake, Nick Drake, the Milk Carton Kids, and most recently I've really been getting into Lorde (if you love any of them too let me know so we can geek out together!).

There isn't a political party in America that I identify with. I'm somewhere on a spectrum between Berny Sanders and Gary Johnson. The song "Shades of Grey" by Billy Joel perfectly describes my feelings on politics.

Desires and Fantasies
I'm sexually dominant and looking for a submissive woman. I enjoy bondage and impact play (and more), but my main fetish is for orgasms; yours and mine. I prefer my sub to have at least 2 or 3 orgasms to my one, and I need her to cherish that one. I need a sub who truly loves to swallow cum, not because I want her to, but because she genuinely enjoys it.

My other kinks include but are not necessarily limited to; cockworship, spanking, paddling, cunalingus, fellatio, bondage (w/me doing the binding), and I love to 69, I could do it all day. My hard limits are; blood, scat, & anything illegal, I also have a strong aversion to anything rapey, I've never found much use for safe-words in my own play since "No", "Stop", and "Ouch" all work so well. So I'm not really into the whole consensual non-consent thing, I prefer eagerly consensual play, the "Thank you, Sir. May I have another?" attitude.

My only hard limits (aside from that which is illegal) are animals, blood, scat, knives, and needles.