🚫if you identify as cishet, you're barking up the wrong tree🚫
!I have zero interest in straight men!

small tdick // big ass // fat // brat // sub
this is a baby boy zone
fat is not a bad word
I write erotica to get me wet

hello and welcome! my name is Jay c:
i'm 36, and i live in the UK with my partner.
i'm pansexual. i'm a non-binary transman. if you have any questions about what any of that means, feel free to ask!
i am non-monogomous, but it's up to me to decide who with and when, not you.
my pronouns are he/they, so please refrain from referring to me with overly feminine petnames.

my biggest kinks are being restrained and whipped/spanked/caned/flogged.
i'm hoping to expand into f*rced orgasms/orgasm denial, and the like.

i'm generally friendly and easy going, unless given a reason to not be.
i'm happy to answer any and all DMs i receive, so don't be shy!
i'm also way less experienced than i make out that i am, so don't be surprised when i tell you what i have and haven't actually done.
i've got a dirty mind, and want to try some dirty things.
if you don't have the patience for that, kindly move on.
i'm not here to take anybody's bullshit, and i'll tell you that much.
i'm also not here for casual/random hookups. i don't trust anybody upon first meeting.

How about a little breakdown of the non-kink things I enjoy?
reading | writing | cross-stitch | video games | photography | horror movies/games | true crime | the beach | metal & rock music | good food | being warm | coffee | taking naps | being looked after | autumn | freshly fallen snow | the smell of new books | the smell of warm bunnies | stepping inside on a windy day | the outside smell | birds

being misgendered, breeding, diapers, enemas, face slapping, facesitting, fisting, leather, piggy, toilet, urethral fucking, urethral sounds, waterboarding, watersports, being referred to as baby boy or anything similar by people more than 10 years younger than me 😬