Please don't come in my inbox being disgusting and please have some manners. I've really had enough of the sleaze.
Don't bother messaging me if you don't know your basic bdsm etiquette or can't be bothered to read my profile.
If we don't live close enough (or you travel my way frequently) to actually meet in person I probably won't reply to messages, nothing personal.
Sorry, no complete newbies.

Why I'm here:

I would love to make more connections in my local community. I've been attending townhouse for about a year now but I'm always too socially awkward to initiate with others. If you see me out and want to say hi, please do! ❤️


Random things about me:

• I'm pretty much an open book. I have no issue being honest with people, (the good or bad) and will talk to practically anyone after about 5 mins of being shy.
  

• I really hate any kind of injustice, I don't get along with right wingers. And I'll always say something if I see someone being treated unfairly.
  

• I love deeply, friends and partners alike. Once my heart is yours I'm incredibly devoted and will do anything I can for that person.
  

• I really love making an effort for my partners, with myself and other silly things that might make them happy.
  

• I'm hypersexual but also very much demi. I want sex, a lot, but without that emotional connectionction it just feels empty.
  

• If I where to state my type, it would likely be chunky bearded guys. But ultimately if that emotional connection isn't there is means nothing to me. Chemistry and getting into my mind are what causes ultimate attraction to someone for me.
  

• I'm enm/poly. I believe in ethical polyamory and don't do any kind of hierarchy.
  
  

  If any kind of play partners or more is going to happen, I expect upto date sti testing. I will provide the same. It's irresponsible not too when multiple people's sexual health may be involved.

  
  I'd love to make connections for the below facets of myself. Connections being a key word. Whether its just play partners, I need an emotional connection. One offs are really not for me.
  
  Little me:
  Shy and coy yet boisterous and playful, I can be your best little girl or full of mischief.
  I can be a bit odd, bouncy, cheeky, sarcastic, then I can turn around and be totally shy, and oblivious..
  I don't regress for trauma, it's purely something I enjoy, it's my happy place and I thrive in my submission. Little me runs quite fluidly with my personality day to day, it's just part of who I am.
  
  Masochistic me:
  A total pain slut. I hate it yet love it, and always seem to want more. I used to hate sting, I still do but I'm also starting to love the suffering it brings me. I love to suffer for my Dominant. Break me, make my cry, beg and sob. I love feeling tortured and tormented.
  
  Submissive (and a little slave) me:
  Once you've cracked her, will be so very loyal and subservient. I love nothing more then knowing without any uncertain doubt I am under His control. I love to serve Him, in any way He sees fit.
  
  Brat me:
  Doesn't come out too often, I can be a little cheeky at times but I'm mostly quite good for a firm dominant. But when she does.. you're in for a treat! Poke the sadist is huge amounts of fun afterall ?
  
  I don't work due to my disability so I am able to delve into little space and my submission 24/7, silver linings.
  
  I have had a few years in this lifestyle now in which time I have experienced a fair few of my fantasies and have never stopped to educate myself. I'm very aware of what I want and what I'm looking for and hope to find others as settled in their role as I am.
  That said, kink is ever evolving and I'm usually (limits considered) happy to try new things! It is afterall, how I got to be where I am today.

• Needles
• Rimming (someone else)
• Scat
• beyond light pain on my nipples
• Hard face slaps
• Piggy humiliation
• Vomit
• No more then 2 drinks on first few meets
• No drugs (weed maybe after first couple times)
• No pet names, honorifics, asking for or showing inappropriate pics and no sexting before something is established