Bilder

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verheiratet mit Frag doch ;)

D/s-Beziehung mit Frag doch ;)

Steckbrief

Geschlecht Frau
Alter 51
Beziehungsstatus kein Single
Figur normal
Augenfarbe andere
Haarlänge
Sexualität homosexuell
Sternzeichen Stier
Tattoos

Über mich

Ich suche

Ich suche nach

Beschreibung

I am sapiosexual, so you will need to win over my mind if you want my attention. If you're reaching out to me, make it interesting, and make it clear that you've read my bio.

I am currently entertaining submissions from well-behaved cis-male subs that want to serve in a TPE way, or those seeking a long distance mentor. Yes I'm amazing with a strap on, but I have no interest in pegging unless there is a profound connection. Do not bother to approach me if this is all you seek.

I am a former sub, former slave, former switch. I Domme from a place of deep understanding and compassion. Consent/Protocol/Rules will be established and end for TPE dynamics.

I am a pleasure Domme. I don't enjoy causing
or being mean. I enjoy leading with care and nurturing, and helping my subs become the best versions of themselves. I treat submission as a precious gift.

Mentally, I create a very safe place without judgment and without shame where you can be totally honest with me so that I can learn your needs and s. With a solid fertile ground like this, I can help you grow strong and confident.

I don't enjoy breaking people. I enjoy building them up. I enjoy when someone chooses to submit to me because they respect me, not because they
me. My worst punishment is to remove my attention and care. Of course there's plenty of room for 'fun-ishment' but if I'm truly angry, I'll be totally silent or say why I'm upset and then block. (I never ghost. I think that's incredibly rude and I also don't give second chances to people that ghost - so if you know you're unable to respond for a few days, it's best to just tell me that plainly.)

And physically, whether in person or from afar, I enjoy creating situations where my subs are so completely overwhelmed by the sensations in their body that they can't think about a single thing other than what's happening to them in that moment. Things like d orgasms, milking, post orgasm , cbt, etc etc. Things like this are very very pleasing to me. I want to make you squeal endlessly in the most pleasurable ways, but you must earn it with patience, vulnerability, transparency, and participation.

Grenzen

no , golden,
no ageplay
nothing immoral

Gruppen

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Just curious.... who else here wants to start a thread for finding what they're seeking?

I'm tired of trying to navigate the normies. 🤷‍♂️

I'm gonna suggest a little basic format, but feel free to post whatever. Or remove if not allowed.

I am: D/s/switch/other
Seeking: D/s/switch/other
IRL/virtual
Long term/quick fun/mentor
Details
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Hey hey just wanted to say I'm happy to find like minds here.
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I am sapiosexual, so you will need to win over my mind if you want my attention. If you're reaching out to me, make it interesting, and make it clear that you've read my bio.

I am currently entertaining submissions from well-behaved cis-male subs that want to serve in a TPE way, or those seeking a Weiterlesen… long distance mentor. Yes I'm amazing with a strap on, but I have no interest in pegging unless there is a profound connection. Do not bother to approach me if this is all you seek.

I am a former sub, former slave, former switch. I Domme from a place of deep understanding and compassion. Consent/Protocol/Rules will be established and end for TPE dynamics.

I am a pleasure Domme. I don't enjoy causing or being mean. I enjoy leading with care and nurturing, and helping my subs become the best versions of themselves. I treat submission as a precious gift.

Mentally, I create a very safe place without judgment and without shame where you can be totally honest with me so that I can learn your needs and s. With a solid fertile ground like this, I can help you grow strong and confident.

I don't enjoy breaking people. I enjoy building them up. I enjoy when someone chooses to submit to me because they respect me, not because they me. My worst punishment is to remove my attention and care. Of course there's plenty of room for 'fun-ishment' but if I'm truly angry, I'll be totally silent or say why I'm upset and then block. (I never ghost. I think that's incredibly rude and I also don't give second chances to people that ghost - so if you know you're unable to respond for a few days, it's best to just tell me that plainly.)

And physically, whether in person or from afar, I enjoy creating situations where my subs are so completely overwhelmed by the sensations in their body that they can't think about a single thing other than what's happening to them in that moment. Things like d orgasms, milking, post orgasm , cbt, etc etc. Things like this are very very pleasing to me. I want to make you squeal endlessly in the most pleasurable ways, but you must earn it with patience, vulnerability, transparency, and participation.
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ISO - exhibitionists & cam sluts
Hmu tonight
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Are you a truly brave sub ready to find what you're seeking? Or do you run away and hide when genuine opportunity presents itself? If you are one that tends to hide, what is your ***? Just looking to understand. All responses welcome.
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Where are the naughty boys at today?
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