Updated: December 14th, 2024.

After a few Years on this site, and many years on others and in the Community, I have decided to slim down my profile, and refocus on my primary fetishes and interests.

Please - take the time to read my whole profile. It is only polite, and may be to both our advantage.

First and foremost, I am a big breast fetishist, and have been since I was around 16 - a total of 43 years to date.
“Big” for those of you in doubt, is largely dependent on your frame size, as much as it is your back and cup size - so a woman who is a dress size 10 - for example, with 34C breasts has ‘big’ breasts.
(I hear often from women who say “my breasts aren’t big, but….” and quite often they ARE - hence the statement above !)

I love big breasts on a woman. Heavy, full, round, soft, firm, hanging, saggy, stretched - it really doen’t matter, as long as they are large.
There is no such thing as “too large” for me. I once met a woman with 40M breasts (UK size) and spent an amazing couple of hours in her company, worshipping her assets. Big areolae and long thick nipples that I can suckle, pull and stretch are very welcome.

I love to see a big pair of breasts, through clothing, to tease and flirt, stroke, touch, grope, squeeze, pull, expose…. and play.
That is my Utopia.

if you have an interest in breast and nipple play, breast sex and nipple orgasms, then look no further.
Everyone can have a nipple orgasm… the biggest block to this is self belief.

It IS possible, I can tell you that from my experience of helping others to explore and enjoy them.

I love women dressed in Fetishwear.
Silk and Satin tops, Leather, Latex and See through materials, as well as stretch fabrics all get me hot under the collar.



By nature, I am a Dominant, Disciplinarian Facilitator.
That sounds like a bit of a mouthful, but it is quite simple really.
I enjoy creating scenarios which give pleasure to others… feeding their specific fantasies - if you will. I can be your guide, teacher, instructor, smoking cessation clinician, and more for Ladies, and Couples.
I enjoy showing Couples how to make the best of their adventures in kink, and have done this many times over the years. my scenarios are original and creative. I have a good knowledge of venues - and other people who would be interested in joining you on your journey.

I am the Bull on your cuckold journey. Thoughtful and caring, but wanton, and devilishly decadent at times.

I spank, I paddle, I belt, I crop, I cane.
I can be your pleasure Dom, or your *** Dom - whichever suits your needs, as all aspects of Dominant/submissive play interest me. I enjoy instructing others in the “Dark Arts” of Domination and Discipline… single Ladies and Couples also.
Aftercare is ALWAYS given, and this is non-negotiable. It can take whichever form you require, and we will have many discussions about this - and your limits, before our journey begins.

I hate the term ‘Sapiosexual’ - however I would describe myself as one.
Intelligence, and the ability to articulate your thoughts and wishes is attractive to me.
I like a good cup of tea and a chat about kink and fetish matters, as much as I like to hold you over my knee for a well deserved spanking… so be prepared for both.

I travel.
A lot.
one of the perks of early retirement.

Please don’t assume that we are too far apart to meet, before we have spoken. I have travelled to Wales, Scotland, Germany and the U.S to meet like minded people before - some on a regular basis, so - “never say never” as the saying goes.

That will be all for now.
If you wish to know more -
to delve into the delicious, decadent, deviant mindset that I possess, you’ll need to message me.
If you choose to do so, please use the phrase “Delicious, Decadent, Deviant” in your headline - so that I know you have at least read my profile -because that is important - isn’t it ?

I look forward, very much, to hearing from you soon.
“DarkArts”.

I like to push the limits of others - with their permission- obviously.
As to my own limits, I am still discovering those one day at a time.

I am happy to discuss the more intimate aspects of those with someone who actually plans on meeting with me in the flesh - otherwise, what’s the point in sharing that level of intimate detail with total strangers ?

I have a fetish for big breasts, breast sex, binding, tying, nipple play, breast slapping and caning - and breast ***, so anyone who messages me regarding that topic will have my undivided attention.

I am a Disciplinarian - with considerable experience, and am alway on the lookout for a wayward bottom to spank, paddle, crop or cane. All the better if it comes with a purpose - for example, a misbehaviour of some sort. I will abide by your limits always, but soft limits are open to being flexed -with your permission.