Caradoc is the name I gave to my dark side, the voice in darkness that caresses your mind, the hand tightening around your throat. The wicked sadistic part, the darkness that lurks in the shadowy corners of the mind. The Evil Gentleman, the Smiling Sadist, the Dark Daddy. I've got a more caring side too, one that enjoys the caregiver aspects of DDlg & petplay as well as the discipline aspects. And I have my wilder side, one that enjoys running through the woods and howling at the moon.

I've been doing WIITWD in private and on the local scene for a couple of decades now but there's always something to learn or improve on. I'm definitely more sadist, service & pleasure dom than the scowling growling "Do as I say" Domly McDomface (I don't take life or myself that seriously and would never be able to keep a straight face). I'm pretty adaptable and enjoy a range of teasing, tormenting & (pleasantly) torturing willing partners mixing pleasure & pain dynamics with caregiver aspects & lots of good aftercare. I never really got into rope, but cuffs, chains and carabiners work well for me. I am a reasonably versatile, broad spectrum kinkster who enjoys learning and experimenting as much as well known old favourites.

Outside of kink, I'm outdoorsy and enjoy hiking, camping, mountain biking and generally spending time out under the sky but I also don't mind a relaxed weekend at home with netflix marathons, board and card games, coffee, drinks and good food. I love road trips and going new places. I am not much of a pubbing and clubbing type, I prefer activity dates doing something: 10 pin bowling, axe throwing, crazy golf, playing pool but I do enjoy a good gig or comedy show too. Though I do like going out for a meal and a drink on a Friday night after work as it feels like it makes the weekend longer.

I am Caradoc Sinistre.

A gloriously decadent gentleman of dark passions. If any of the above tweaks your interest, feel free to reach out, wild times await.

Hard limits: permanent harm, scarring, etc. Scat play. Blood / wounds. Things that are illegal for damn good reasons. Extreme breathplay.

Soft limits by negotiation: watersports, lighter breathplay, visible bruising / marks.