First treat me like a person. I am a scientist, I love the outdoors, cycling , running, wild swimming and hiking, I have spent the majority of my life sailing (seriously, since I was 5), I'm a massive sci-fi and fantasy nerd, love a regency costume drama, and I am a deeply liberally socialist.
If you can't keep up when I'm running, cycling, swimming, or hiking don't bother. I want someone who'll join me on my adventures.
I love real connection. I love good deep conversations where the nuance if the world gets picked apart. If the conversation isn't fully two way, I lose interest almost immediately.
As for my Dom side. It is something that has been an integral part of my life for over 20 years now. I've always been the person to step forward and take charge when the need has arisen no matter which aspect of my life so it just comes naturally now.
I give care, I give praise, I give structure. And when necessary I give punishment. It's all about balance 😁
Hard Limits: Toilet play, permanent marks, ***s, people who put in low/no effort to communication, and Tories, and now reformers. Anyone on the right wing basically.