Ok, so I feel like I need to reiterate this, please, if you DM me, treat me like a person. If you need hook to start a conversation try these... I am a scientist, I love the outdoors, cycling , running, wild swimming and hiking, I have spent the majority of my life sailing (seriously, since I was 5), I'm a massive sci-fi and fantasy nerd, love a regency costume drama, and I am a deeply liberally socialist.
If you don't love the outdoors, hiking, running, watersports (the non kink kind) then I'm not for you. They're so intrinsic to who I am, I have to be able to share them with my partner!
I love real connection. I love good deep conversations where the nuance of the world gets picked apart. That said I enjoy talking about truly meaningless nonsense too. I mean who isn't willing to die on the hill of their top five ice creams/lollies from the ice-cream van?
As for my Dom side. It is something that I discovered over 20 years ago, and with every passing year it helps me learn more about myself.
I take pleasure in low stakes sadism, adore aftercare, and hand craft my own paddles, floggers and collars because I love an arts and crafts crossover.
Hard Limits: Toilet play, permanent marks, ***s, people who put in low/no effort to communication, and Tories, and now reformers. Anyone on the right wing basically.